on the IRS front:
on March 21, chatted with attorney Peter Nealis (thanks Lou) his partner, Ron Christian, specializes in non-profits, and Peter thinks he's handled this situation before.
They have a special rate for charitable orgs. They plan to send us an estimate which will be a flat fee most likely.
They'll also offer us a "what to do when we lose strategy" so we're by no means out of the woods even if we can afford them.